never visited a professional dungeon before. What can I expect?
arrival at your previously arranged date we'll first have a
preliminary introduction as equals. With no power exchange involved we
will talk about
your fantasies, expectations and limits, and I will answer any
questions you might have. This conversation is free of charge and bears
no obligation for you - you are completely free to decide if you want
to stay for a session.
In case we agree on playing together
I will ask you to pay my fee, then you'll have the opportunity to take
a shower and freshen up (toiletries, towels, hair dryer etc. are
provided) before we immerse ourselves into our session.
there will be time to relax, and to reflect on our adventure if you
wish to do so. Another hot shower might be pleasant as well before we
part ways again.
* Do I
need an appointment ?
Yes, I'll be able to see you by appointment only,
even if you know my address from previous visists. Appointments in the
afternoon are sometimes
possible on short notice, too. To meet me in the evening we usually need to plan at least a few days in advance.
it possible to meet for a "preliminary introduction" without a session?|
course. When you make the appointment please
know that you're interested in a consultation only.
* Can we meet Saturday or Sunday, too?
Sorry, at this point in time I'm only available for dates from Monday to Friday.
exactly is a "Bizarrlady"?
other sex work job titles there's no strict definition. A German
wearing fetish gear and offers vanilla sex services such as oral sex
and intercourse. Some Bizarrladies are versed in BDSM practices in
addition to that, either as
tops or as switches (i.e. enjoying both the top and
dominant Bizarrladies it's the intimate
sexual services that distinguishes them from a "Domina" (Mistress).
Switch ladies often call themselves Bizarrladies if they
focus on the top role, and "Zofe" (maid) if they bottom most of the
The only way to know for sure which lady offers what
kinds of services is to carefully read their advertisements, or just
prostitution legal in Germany?|
It's legal to offer and receive sexual services for money as long as
both provider and client are consenting adults.
you like being addressed as "Mistress"?
and plain interpersonal respect are just fine. Within our scene
there might apply different rules, but rest assured that I will let you
do you pronounce your name and what does it mean?
is pronounced "Oon-dee-nay",
three syllables, second one stressed. Diminutive of "Unda", so that's
"Little Wave" in Latin. Undine is the name of a water nymph in a
romantic novel by French/German writer Fouqué that influenced
Andersen's "Little Mermaid" and other siren tales.
What's your favourite role, top or bottom?
always loved both, even during my first BDSM experiences as a teen. As
a professional I started out as a bottom only, but soon expanded my
services once I felt more secure doing sex work. At present the
majority of my clients are submissives - but tops who share my
interests are still more than welcome to play with me, and creative
switch secenarios range among my favourite scenes.
* Your fees as a bottom reflect different intensities, where is the line?
sessions fall into the medium price range. That includes all services offered
including emotionally heavy role play like rape scenarios or
resistance/overpowering, and the possibility to mark me for up to a few
A lower priced "gentle"
scene would have a light and playful atmosphere throughout, without any
pain or exertion: Bondage in comfortable positions and
erotic teasing with vibrators, dildos or tongue for instance;
hand spanking and use of soft floggers or crops on the buttocks
followed by oral sex and intercourse.
would be severe
flagellation with lots of heavy implements that may leave longer lasting marks, until I can take no more -
which is quite a lot.* Your
fees are quite high.
I feel sincerely
honored that some of my clients save up for a long time to spend an
hour with me. In the end the financial value of a painting, a
concert, a piece of jewellery or a night with a haetera is up to the
art lover. If you don't sincerely believe that our time together is
worth its price please refrain from seeing me - neither of us would be
able to fully enjoy our encounter.
If you have any further
questions please feel free to e-mail